June Update

So, June really snuck up on me...

April and May were supposed to be my time to work on my platform and, while I didn’t spend time working on it, as so often happens, I didn't get as much done as I thought I would. But, with the help of a friend who is a graphic designer and photographer, I got a lot done this weekend.

So June is going to continue to be a building and learning experience. Hopefully in July I can get back into something more creative.

And, in the meantime, I tweaked my posting schedule a bit - look for writerly quotes weekly on Monday or Tuesday, as well as Writing Prompt Wednesdays and Throwback Thursdays on alternating weeks.

Put it in Your Pocket

This morning I prepared to meet a friend for a walk. I was packing Elianna's diaper bag, and tucking small things into the pockets of my leggings. (Yes, I have leggings with pockets - they're awesome.) I think that, in conjunction with Elianna's Wonder Woman t-shirt (made to look like it had a little utility belt), made me wonder why utility belts aren't a common thing.

Wouldn't that be fantastic? Haul around all the small items you need without worrying about it falling out of your pockets, or having to carry a purse? I'd love to have a utility belt. I do have a steampunk pouch that attaches to a belt that I occasionally use in lieu of a purse, but I'm talking multiple pockets and pouches on a belt.

There was a story I was going to write back an embarrassingly long time ago where one of the characters had an absurd amount of pockets and pouches hanging off her belt. (I have long since abandoned that story, which was basically Harry Potter fan-fic, for much better stories.)

Last week I was thinking about pockets in the context of writing, too. I posted a writing prompt on my Facebook page asking fellow writers to consider what unique item their character carries in a pocket or pouch. I do like little character sketches and insights like that - what small, defining quirk or characteristic can you come up with for a character you're writing?

Do you have something special, something unique, that you carry with you in a pocket or purse?

Be Prepared

So of course something that's been on a lot of people's minds recently is the corona virus and preparing for it.  Reactions and preparations range from "I guess I better talk to my boss about work from home options, just in case" to "I WILL BUY ALL THE TOILET PAPER AT COSCTO!"  No, the latter is not an exaggeration.  The Costco closest to us sold out of toilet paper last week because someone started circulating a (false) rumor on Facebook that Woodstock High School would be closing due to an infected student.  (To clarify, the school is not closing, and the infected student lives in Fulton county and attended a private, home school study location in Woodstock that is now closed for two weeks.)

As a writer, part of my brain has compartmentalized and takes every headline as a story prompt.  No children under 10 have died from the virus?  Wouldn't that make for an interesting YA dystopian novel!  

I used to read a ton of what I thought of as "plague fiction" (I guess they'd be more properly termed medical thrillers) - suddenly a new and deadly bacteria or virus is spreading across the globe with an unprecedented ferocity and death toll.  Will our plucky scientist be able to stop it (and also save/reconnect with his/her estranged love interest)?!  Oh, woe!  

I also used to be more involved in emergency preparedness, due to work.  When I worked at a public library, our head librarian had a meeting every year to discuss emergency kits - what you should have at home in case of a multi-day power outage due to a hurricane or winter storm, what you should have in your car in case you get stranded in the snow, etc.  (And boy didn't she have a big "I told you so" moment the year everyone got stuck in the ice on I-285...)  

When I worked at as the evening/weekend closer at a university library, I was training to be a Crisis Coordinator - someone who could be prepared, be in charge in the event of anything from a heart attack to an active shooter.  I even made displays and fliers for things like winter weather safety and heat stroke prevention.

I've written little snippets of various disaster scenarios based on writing prompts.  I've thought about writing some post-apocalyptic stuff... but I always find I've made things too convenient for the characters.  They just happen to live near a pristine, clean stream?  They live in an area powered by a hydroelectric damn that somehow keeps running without maintenance?  Golly, gee, that's swell!

This week, though, things kind of started hitting home how very unprepared most of us are for any disaster (not necessarily even this virus).  Completely unrelated to preparing for The Virus, I needed to get a refill of my sleep medication.  My doctor had initially given me a 90 day supply, but back about a month ago she had me start taking double the dose because my insomnia started coming back.  No biggie, just call for a refill when I run out sooner than expected, right?  Except she's on maternity leave now - and won't be back until mid-May.  But, hey, no problem, another doctor in her practice is covering her patients, and that doctor called in a refill.  For exactly the same medication, not the higher dose. When I checked with the pharmacy to see if it was ready, they said insurance wouldn't cover it for another two weeks because I was getting the same medication too soon into the 90 day period.  I would need the medication 17 days before insurance would cover it.

Fortunately, this medication is neither expensive, nor life-saving.  I mean, yeah, it's best for everyone if I take this medication, because when I don't sleep well I get frustrated way more easily, which means I either end up crying or yelling at the baby.  But it's not insulin.  It's not cancer medication.  I could have made do for a couple weeks on crazy amounts of melatonin or Benadryl.  But every emergency prep list I've ever seen, every class or workshop on crisis control I've ever been to, they tell you to have extra prescriptions.  All of them.  For each family member.  And an extra for both the house and the car. 

Standing in the pharmacy, paying out of pocket for my prescription, having passed empty shelves with signs asking shoppers to limit their purchases of hand soap and Clorox wipes to two per customer, it occurred to me how tenuous our control of our comfortable lives is.

Be safe out there, y'all.

What Tradition Are You Grateful For?

If you follow my personal Facebook page, you have seen the "30 Days of Gratitude" posts that I've been making. 

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It's been interesting and introspective.

Thanksgiving's prompt was "What tradition are you grateful for?"  I didn't want to take time on that day to make a long post, but I did want to be able to go into it in depth at some point.

The first Christmas that Jason and I were together, I was still living with my parents.  We wanted to do something together for Christmas - just the two of us - but we each also wanted to spend time with our families.  I worked December 23rd, but Jason was off.  We decided to have a nice, special Christmas dinner together, exchange presents, and just have some nice, quiet time together.

I arrived at Jason's house after work.  When I came into the kitchen from the garage, he had the table set, candles lit, Tori Amos Christmas carols playing in the background, and was just finishing making dinner.  He had gotten ham and green bean casserole, and, I believe, mashed potatoes.

 

It might sound pretty simple, but it meant a lot to me.  What also makes this a very special memory for me is that I had never had a boyfriend at Christmas before, and, knowing that, Jason put a lot of effort into making our first Christmas together a special one.

That was the only year that we haven't spent Christmas Eve and Day together; we had been together a little over half a year at this point and both spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with our respective families.  Every year since then, though, we have been together on Christmas (adding Baldur our second year).  Every year we juggle spending time with both his family and mine, with the exceptions of when one side or the other might choose to travel for Christmas.  (My sister lives in St. Louis and Jason's dad has family in Indiana.)

But no matter where we end up being, what we end up doing, or who we end up spending time with for Christmas proper, we always find some time - usually the day before we head out, though I think we might also have done it the day after - to have our own special, personal Christmas.  We have Christmas dinner (though on one occasion it was brunch), choosing either something special that we don't eat a lot, like filet mignon, or something new.  We have our presents for each other and for Baldur, and we try to find some time to just spend together and have some quiet and peace in the midst of all the dashing back and forth.

This is the tradition I am the most grateful for - the special, quiet time I share with my boys.

Please share stories about your favorite tradition, whether holiday or otherwise.